Advancement is defined as “moving forward in a purposeful way.”
advanceMEN coaching is “moving MEN forward in a purposeful way.”
How do you want to feel?
It’s a simple question—but one most men never get asked.
Connection is at the heart of everything I do. I believe too many men merely exist—going through the motions, feeling stuck, and disconnected from their potential. But life isn’t meant to be endured; it’s meant to be lived with purpose, clarity, and intention.
I coach because I’ve been that man—on the outside, things looked fine, but inside, I knew there had to be more. I’m here for the men who feel that same nudge. Men who refuse to settle. Men who are ready to step fully into who they’re meant to be.
Every moment you live reflects who you are, and with each decision, you can redefine yourself. The answers you seek aren’t out there—they’re already within you. My role is to help you uncover them, and move forward with confidence and purpose.
If something in you is stirring, follow it. You’re not alone.
- Kevin Kertes
Men’s Coaching to Help You Move Forward—With Confidence and Purpose
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next move? You’re not alone.
Most men want to grow into the strongest version of themselves—intentional partners, present fathers, solid friends, and purpose-driven professionals. But life piles on. Demands. Expectations. Responsibilities.
And somewhere in the middle of it all, it’s easy to lose your sense of direction.
Deep down, you know change is possible. You just don’t know where to start.
That’s where men’s coaching comes in.
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You Don’t Need More Advice—You Need a Path Forward
As a men’s life coach, I’m not here to tell you what to do. You already get enough of that—from bosses, partners, family, or social media. My role is to help you cut through the noise and reconnect with what matters most to you.
Through powerful questions, honest reflection, and practical action, we’ll work together to help you:
Clarify your goals—personally and professionally
Identify what’s keeping you stuck
Build habits that align with your values
Create momentum that feels grounded and sustainable
You already have the answers. My job is to help you find them—and use them.
What Men’s Coaching Is—and What It’s Not
Coaching isn’t therapy. It’s not mentorship or consulting. It’s a partnership.
Our work is rooted in honesty, trust, and forward movement. I’ll ask the tough but thoughtful questions, hold space without judgment, and support you in building a life that’s aligned with who you are—and who you want to become.
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about equipping you with the mindset, clarity, and tools to move forward with purpose—long after our work together ends.
You Don’t Have to Figure It Out Alone
Remember when adulthood meant freedom?
No rules. No one telling you what to do.
What you didn’t see coming: career pressure, relationship dynamics, family responsibilities, financial stress, and the weight of always having to “hold it all together.”
While managing everything—work, home, health—it’s easy to put yourself last.
You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And you don’t have to carry it all by yourself.
Real Change Starts Here
Men’s coaching isn’t just about one breakthrough. It’s about building a strong foundation for real, lasting change—in your mindset, your confidence, your relationships, and how you show up in the world.
Whether you’re navigating a career shift, working to become a more present partner, or just trying to reconnect with yourself, I’m here to walk that journey with you.
And the best part? Once you find your clarity, you may never need another coach again. You’ll leave equipped to keep growing—on your own terms.
Let’s Talk About What’s Next
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward, let’s connect.
You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
Let’s figure out what next - together.
Who am I
For much of my life, I played it safe—nestled in middle management, always just beneath the surface, acutely aware of my limiting beliefs. I often doubted myself, attributing it to a lack of discipline.
We're conditioned to believe that independence equates to strength and that seeking support is a sign of weakness. We tell ourselves to keep our heads down and push through. But the truth? It's far more manageable with help. Recognizing this is the most challenging part; the world opens up once you do.
Before the pandemic, I sought out a therapist. Despite years in and out of therapy, I was never fully honest, craving support but never allowing myself to be truly known. Then, I discovered a men's group. Sitting with six strangers, I voiced thoughts I'd never dared to share. I was open, vulnerable, and emotional—instead of judgment, I was met with warmth, kindness, deep understanding, and support.
That moment changed my life. I truly let go for the first time, and it was empowering.
Through it all, I've understood at the deepest level: men need connection.
Now, I coach men—not as a therapist, but as a guide. I help them break out of isolation, build genuine confidence, and move forward with purpose. Everything changes when a man feels genuinely connected—to himself, to others, to something greater than mere survival.
He becomes a better father, husband, partner, and friend. A man who is present. A man who leads with strength and heart. A man who doesn't just go through life but is immersed in it.
We need to be loved. We may think otherwise, but if we're completely honest, we need love, connection, meaning, and purpose. When that happens, we become the men we were always meant to be—the men our partners, our kids, and most importantly, ourselves, can be proud of. We stand in our own power and live up to the true essence of being a man.
If I can help even one man make this shift, step into his power, and finally feel what it's like to have purpose and meaning, it's all worth it. That's why I do this.
I help men move forward in a purposeful way.
That's why I coach.